I don't feel comfortable with the split up into two realms, mainly because the free public realm could become as laggy as blizzard's bnet
This point is addressed by the existence of the pay-to-play donator's realm. Lag on the free server is a self-imposed grief. 5 Euro/month is about what Runescape costs, it is about what other good pay-to-play realms cost; if free D2LOD is better than free CE, then play on blizzards' net. If CE is better, then play free with "freeloader lag" (it's NOT "not enough servers" lag, it's "freeloader lag"), or donate and play on the donator's server.
a huge reason why so many people have joined CCC recently.
If blizzard players came to CE because the freeloading is better, they'll be disappointed. However, I think your assertion is in error from the ground up: People come here because of the BEHAVIOR (attitude) of the blizzard-net players, and because of the QUALITY of the CE MOD.
Future CE newbies will play on a laggy server with huge queues or no games to finish quests, with only those that didn't move to the new realm.
Donators can have two accounts: one of the free server and one on the Donator's server. So you'll met donators everywhere.
This will certainly not be very stimulating for people new to CE, and based on these conditions they are less likely to become members. (in fact you just created 4 realms: 2 SC and 2 HC realms, which fragments the community even more.)
What stimulated me was the improved quality of the MOD, and the improved quality of the members.
• I think the membership fee of 30 euros is quite steep compared to the 1 euro per month suggested before, especially since many of the current people will start paying now, just to play on the new realm.
The price of 30 euro/year (2.5 euro/month) won't chase away anybody that didn't donate 1/month before, so nothing is lost there. You're asserting that the 2.5 euro/month price will chace away some who could afford 1/month but can't afford 2.5/month. Somebody THAT pinched for cash needs to get working, and stop crying about the price of playing games!
• Most of the people I used to play with, or talk to, already moved to the new realm, or consider doing so.
Is Joe's efforts (and his paying out of his pocket so you can enjoy the fruit of his skull-sweat) worth a few beers a month? I don't drink, so I send money (5 Euro/month) to support the realm. There is no drug in the world as cheap and as addicting as this game. Send 5 Euro/month and get on the Donator's server. The free server is then a "try before you buy" place.
• A donator should not have to play on a laggy server to continue using his characters on the public realm.
Play hardcore for a while, and the notion of restarting characters won't bother you so much.
All of this has made me quite frustrated and on the brink of quiting online CE gaming.
Frustration arises from ont getting what you want from a person over whom you don't have authority.
Play offline for a while, come back and re-check the online world.
Personally I would prefer this alternative: allow people to play for two months for free on a single realm, freeze their account after two months unless or until they contribute a donation. This way everyone in the CE community gets to interact, allowing new users to play on relatively lagfree servers, along with more seasoned players. I believe that two months will be enough for anyone to evaluate the game, gameplay, community and encourage them to contribute if they want to continue playing. Also the continued arrival of new users will be more interesting for the older bunch. A closed realm without fresh blood may turn out to be rather short lived.
This notion is that there is only one realm, the pay-to-play realm, with "guest memberships" for newbies. I like it.
I'd add a suggestion to make the characters ALL ladder characters, and dump hardcore (change death penalty in softcore to be more intense), so that we're more likely to interact. This suggestion comes from my American location: I play alone when online almost all the time because there aren't other games, let alone games that I could join and complete quests.
Last but not least, I expect that donators will be able to create and use multiple accounts on the new realm?
1 account (18 characters) suffices.